How to Tell If Your Cat Is in Pain: What to Notice and When to Call Your Vet
Quick answer: Cats often hide discomfort remarkably well. That means pain may show up first not as something dramatic, but as a small change: your cat stops jumping onto the bed, sleeps somewhere unusual, leaves food behind, grooms less, hides more, or simply doesn't seem quite like themselves.
The most important thing to watch for is change from your cat's normal. And if you find yourself thinking, something is just off, pay attention to that. You live with this animal every day. Your observations matter.

Sometimes Pain Looks Like “Just Different” Behavior
Maybe your cat is quieter than usual.
Maybe they flinched when you touched a place they normally love having scratched.
Maybe they stopped jumping onto their favorite chair.
Or maybe there isn't one obvious symptom at all. They're just… different.
That uncertainty can be hard, especially with cats, because they are extraordinarily good at hiding discomfort.
So rather than trying to answer the frightening question—
“Is something seriously wrong?”
—start with a smaller, more useful one:
“What has changed?”
That gives you something concrete to observe, document, and share with your veterinarian.
Why Cats Can Be So Hard to Read
Cats evolved as animals that benefited from concealing vulnerability. As a result, they may mask discomfort even when they aren't feeling well.
A cat experiencing pain may still:
- Purr
- Eat meals
- Walk around
- Come to you for affection
- Behave normally for periods of time
So, you aren't necessarily looking for a dramatic display of pain.
You are often looking for a pattern of subtle changes.
That is not a reason to panic. It is a reason to pay attention.
Start With Your Cat's Normal
There isn't one checklist that tells you what every comfortable cat looks like.
Your cat has a baseline.
Maybe they have always slept sixteen hours a day. Maybe they have never been especially playful. Maybe they routinely disappear under your bed every afternoon.
That may be completely normal for them.
What matters is when something begins to change.
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Know their normal. Notice the change.
One change does not tell you what is wrong. A pattern is worth a call.
- Eating and drinking at their usual pace
- Grooming regularly
- Moving, stretching and jumping as usual
- Using the litter box without hesitation
- Sleeping in familiar places
- Interacting with you and their environment as usual
- Sleeping considerably more than usual
- Unusual hiding or sleeping places
- Hesitating before jumping, or avoiding jumps
- Eating less; drinking noticeably more or less
- Grooming less, or over-grooming one spot
- Hiding, withdrawing, or reacting when touched
- Changes in litter-box habits
One change isn't the answer. A pattern is worth a call.
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One change does not tell you what is wrong.
But a clear change from your cat's normal, particularly when several changes occur together, is useful information to bring to your veterinarian.
Look at the Whole Cat: Face, Body and Movement
Pain doesn't always announce itself with crying or vocalizing.
Sometimes you can see it in the way a cat holds their body or face.
Veterinary researchers have developed the Feline Grimace Scale, which evaluates facial changes associated with pain.
Changes you may notice in the face
Watch for:
- Squinting or partially closed eyes rather than soft, relaxed eyes
- Ears rotated outward, backward or flattened
- Whiskers pulled tightly back or held tensely forward
- A tense-looking muzzle
- The head held lower than usual
Changes you may notice in the body
You might see:
- A hunched or crouched posture
- Limbs tucked tightly underneath the body
- Stiffness or unusually slow movement
- Reluctance to put weight on one leg
- Limping
- Hesitation before jumping
- Refusing to jump altogether
- The tail held low or close to the body
Again, think change, not perfection.
A position your cat has used for their entire life is different from a posture that suddenly appears along with other behavioral changes.
What About Purring, Crying or Growling?
This can be confusing because we associate purring with a happy cat.
But a purring cat is not necessarily a pain-free cat.
Cats can also purr when stressed or uncomfortable.
At the other end of the spectrum, an increase in yowling, crying, hissing or growling can be important—particularly when it occurs during movement or when a specific area is touched.
The useful question is the same:
Is this normal for my cat, or is this new?
Some Signs Should Not Be Watched and Waited On
Most subtle changes warrant observation and a conversation with your veterinarian.
Some signs are different.
Seek veterinary or emergency veterinary attention promptly if your cat is:
- Straining to urinate or unable to produce urine, particularly a male cat
- Open-mouth breathing or panting
- Collapsing or unable to stand
- Dragging the hind legs
- Showing pale, white, blue or yellow gums
- Suddenly crying out in severe pain
- Developing a visibly distended or rigid abdomen
- Losing consciousness or becoming unresponsive
These are not “let's see how things look tomorrow” situations.
Call your veterinarian or an emergency veterinary hospital.
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Call a vet or emergency hospital now if you see
These aren't “see how tomorrow looks” signs. Call now.
- Straining to urinate, or unable to — especially a male cat
- Open-mouth breathing or panting
- Collapsing or unable to stand
- Dragging the hind legs
- Pale, white, blue or yellow gums
- Suddenly crying out in severe pain
- A visibly distended or rigid abdomen
- Losing consciousness or becoming unresponsive
Call your veterinarian or an emergency veterinary hospital.
Decision support, never a substitute for your veterinarian.
What If You Genuinely Aren't Sure?
This is where many pet parents get stuck.
Nothing looks catastrophic.
But you know something isn't quite right.
Instead of trying to solve the entire medical mystery yourself, collect useful information.
1. Write down what changed
Ask yourself:
- When did I first notice this?
- Has it gotten better, worse or stayed the same?
- What exactly is different?
- Did anything happen just before it started?
2. Track the basics
Make a note of:
- Eating
- Drinking
- Urination
- Bowel movements
- Activity
- Grooming
- Sleep
- Hiding
- Interaction with you
You don't need perfect records. You're looking for a pattern.
3. Take a video
This can be enormously helpful.
Cats have a frustrating habit of suddenly looking completely fine once they arrive at the veterinary clinic.
If your cat is walking strangely, hesitating before jumping, holding their body differently or behaving unusually, take a short video at home if you safely can.
4. Call your veterinarian
You do not have to know whether something “deserves” an appointment before you call.
Tell the practice exactly what has changed and how long it has been happening. They can help guide you on the appropriate next step.
And remember:
You aren't expected to diagnose your cat.
Your job is to notice.
Your veterinarian's job is to evaluate what those observations may mean.
A Simple Way to Organize What You're Seeing
Before you call your vet, try completing these sentences:
- My cat normally: ____
- What changed: ____
- I first noticed it: ____
- It seems to be getting: better / worse / staying the same
- Changes I've noticed in eating, drinking or litter-box habits: ____
- Other behavior that feels unusual: ____
That little bit of structure can be surprisingly helpful, especially when you're worried and your brain suddenly forgets every useful detail the moment someone answers the phone.
How PetCare Ally Helps in Moments Like This
This is exactly the kind of moment I created PetCare Ally for.
You notice something.
You don't know yet whether it is important.
You're worried.
And five minutes later you have seventeen browser tabs open and somehow feel less clear than when you started.
PetCare Ally gives you somewhere to slow all of that down.
You can walk through what you're observing, organize the details that may be useful to your veterinarian, and prepare questions for the conversation.
It can help you think through things like:
- “What have I actually noticed?”
- “What information should I track?”
- “What should I make sure I tell my vet?”
- “What questions do I want to ask?”
PetCare Ally does not diagnose your cat or replace your veterinarian.
It is there to help you become calmer, clearer and better prepared to partner with them.
Because when an animal depends on you, the decisions you make matter. You shouldn't have to make them while you're drowning in information and fear.
Try PetCare AllyFrequently Asked Questions
Can my cat be in pain and still purr?
Yes. Cats don't only purr when they're content. They may also purr when stressed, anxious or uncomfortable. So, purring by itself doesn't tell you that a cat is pain-free.
Look at the whole picture: behavior, movement, appetite, grooming, posture and whether anything has changed.
How do I know whether my cat is in pain or just lazy?
Go back to baseline.
A cat who has always preferred the sofa to climbing the curtains may simply be a low-energy cat.
But if your normally active cat suddenly stops jumping, stops playing, hides more or moves differently, the change is the important part.
If you're uncertain, talk with your veterinarian.
My cat is old. Isn't slowing down just part of aging?
Some changes occur with age, but pain—particularly from conditions such as arthritis—can also be under-recognized in older cats.
Stiffness, reluctance to jump, changes in grooming and changes in behavior are worth discussing with your veterinarian rather than automatically assuming they're “just getting old.”
Can cats have different kinds of pain?
Yes. Cats can experience musculoskeletal, internal and dental pain, among other types. Because they can't tell us where something hurts, changes you observe at home can become an important part of the veterinary picture.
What will my veterinarian do to assess pain?
Your veterinarian may evaluate your cat's posture and movement, perform a physical examination and ask about what you have observed at home. Depending on their findings, they may recommend additional testing such as bloodwork or imaging.
That is another reason your observations matter.
You know what “normal” looks like in your house.
Author: Laura Strausberg, Founder of PetCare Ally — Laura created PetCare Ally after navigating complicated medical decisions with her own animals and experiencing firsthand how quickly love, fear and too much information can collide when an animal you love is sick.
Medically reviewed by Dr. Paula Simons, DVM, DACVECC.
This article is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional veterinary advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult your veterinarian about your pet's health.
Sources
- International Society of Feline Medicine / American Association of Feline Practitioners — Feline Grimace Scale resources
- American Association of Feline Practitioners (AAFP) — catvets.com
- Merck Veterinary Manual — Pain Assessment and Management in Cats